Perspective of Woman's Love

Remo & White Christmas Tree

It is a cold and long evening. The living room is cozy with a white Christmas tree placed at the corner of the room and decorated beautifully with warm golden and glittering ribbons wrapped around the tree and cute white ornaments hanged from its branches. My fur baby Remo playing near me with his chew toys. It is a good ambience for a perfect Christmas Love. Did I say Christmas Love? Funny to say, but why not call as Christmas Love? After all, it is a season to spread love. “Every time we love, every time we give, its Christmas – Dale Evans”. A question lingered in my thoughts. What is LOVE? Several answers floated in my mind. Why not search the world’s largest encyclopedia! Our virtual Guru Google (GG) 😊. I picked my phone and searched curiously to view the perspective of Google’s version of Love. Here you go, Google answers:

“A bond that two people share”

“An intense feeling of deep affection, care and like”

“A feeling of deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone”

Hmmm! These answers give me a quite good feeling and made me explore more of love from my perspective. Every woman has their own way to show and reciprocate love. Adding to the intense feeling of care and affection, Love is an addiction. It gives a feeling of heavenly joy which hangs on a very delicate string of our emotions. Handle with care! 😊 Love is fragile. One cannot find the genesis of the love or cannot understand when it occupied and arrested our heart or our whole body. Love makes us self-explore like I am writing now via this blog. Of Course! my dear friends, I am in love too. If you are reading this blog, I believe you already would have experienced Love in numerous ways. Love is naughty too!

When we are in love, time hyperlapses. More positivity surrounds us with a feeling of centricity. At this moment, you are the highly confident, the one and only gorgeously beautiful 😉, attractive, happiest, and luckiest woman in the whole world. It is like God has made all our wishes come true for our whole lifetime.

Love is like an elevator; you board it, and it surprises us by taking us to different levels of affection. When I write about different levels of affection, I am so intrigued to know from the other women their perspective of love. So, I had a conversation with women of different age groups from 16 to 60 years about “What Love means to them?”. For a teenage girl, Love is like a fantasy dream world story and it always ends with “Happily Ever After……”. Girls easily tie themselves to situations in romantic movies.

Love gives a lot of excitement and surprises. Specifically, for a spinster woman, love is all about a more caring nature and blind affection. One’s love is written in stars. Anyone cannot find a logic why we fall in love irrespective of good or bad and rich or poor. Whereas for a married woman, Love is a motivational factor and the bond shared as a family. Love creates an unplanned responsibility and helps in overcoming life challenges. It makes us deeply rooted in a relationship.

Well, until now, we were exploring love from the perspectives of different women. God has gifted human beings with love. Out of all living beings, women have the power to express ultimate and more love towards all unconditionally. In this instance, the best woman role model for showing unlimited and exceptional love towards all human beings is Mother Teresa. She quoted her thoughts about love remarkably:

“Intense love does not measure. It just gives.”

“Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.”

“Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.”

Mother Teresa went one step above all and considered herself as a messenger of love. From her own words:

“I’m a little pencil in the hand of a writing God who is sending a love letter to the world.”

There is no definite shape or rules, or conditions apply to show and feel love. Every woman has different stages of love and displays love in their own unique way. If you are yet to fall in love, wait for the cupid’s arrow to strike your heart 😉. My Ladies, we may not be like Cleopatra, Goddess of love. But, when you show the love you become God. God is Love! Or Anbae Sivam in my own language.

Love cannot be resisted and should not be restricted. The world flourishes with life and life flourishes with love. Every human craves love. So, my dear friends, show love in your own way to your sweetheart, mother, father, sisters, brothers, friends, pets, plants, trees, and all living beings in this world. Finally, don’t forget to Love yourself 😊

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